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Weeds under a thatched roof

1/21/2014

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The writers gathered under the thatched roof
Years ago I participated in a writer’s workshop in Guatemala, hosted by a successful author. Sessions took place on a patio under a thatched roof overlooking a mountain lake.  Memorable setting.

And while the lessons were many, I remember one in particular every time I sit down to write a blog, an email, or a note to a client:

  • Nix the clichés. Every commonplace expression hides the unique and personal side of an insight or observation. And while just about every book on writing cautions against clichés, they are hardy as weeds. 

But the workshop leader did a good job of weeding. She pulled dozens of cliché driven sentences from the stories we’d written and wove them into a seamless monologue that went on and on – and said nothing fresh or insightful.

At first I was flattered to hear one of my sentences used, then chastened as I realized, along with my workshop mates, how flat it all sounded.

So I now work mightily to avoid clichés when writing and speaking. It’s not easy! 

This is especially difficult given my tendency to half-remember clichés.  I once suggested in a decisive manner at a conference table that we “separate the riff from the raff” when I meant, in cliché-speak, to say, “separate the wheat from the chaff.”  Ouch.

The nub of it all is clarity. What does one really think and feel, and what are the words that clearly express those thoughts and feelings? 

When I hear clichés I start probing – weeding the conversation – till I hear a fresh and personal take on the subject.  

Clichélessly yours,

Coach Minda
2 Comments
Danielle Shapazian
1/25/2014 11:43:31 pm

As a writer, this is something I work on too! I like this post. (Plus, it triggered some memories I had forgotten. :-)

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Minda
2/5/2014 04:41:33 am

Danielle, Thank you for reading and commenting. She was very effective at putting an end to the cliche for me! When are we going to see your book in print?

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