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Look Ahead, Not Down

24/3/2026

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We’re in the Azores on São Miguel for a winter getaway, and I decide to hire a guide to take us on an e-bike ride from Ribeira Grande on the north coast to Caloura on the south—cutting across the island on back trails.

It starts off easily on paved roads, until we hit the dirt path—long stretches of loose gravel. Suddenly, I’m struggling. I’m staring straight down at my front wheel, trying to correct for every tiny wobble from the rocks and stones. The more I try to control it, the more the bike seems to move underneath me. I can feel myself getting tense, overworking every little adjustment, and starting to worry about the many kilometres ahead.


Where You Set Your Gaze
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Our guide watches me for a bit, then calmly says, “Minda, stop looking down at your front wheel. Set your gaze much farther ahead—you’ll find the ride becomes a lot easier.”

It takes me a moment to trust it, but I lift my eyes and look as far ahead as I can. And almost immediately, everything shifts.

From Wobble to Flow
One simple change, and the corrections become fewer and smoother. The bike steadies, and my body relaxes. I’m honestly amazed that such a small adjustment could completely change the experience. I had to practice letting my eyes rest farther away. And it makes sense in a very human way—something any cyclist or dancer knows: where your eyes go, your body follows.

When you look down, everything tightens and becomes reactive. When you look ahead, your movements organize themselves more smoothly and naturally.


Of course, I say out loud, “Wow… what a metaphor for life.”

When we fixate on every little bump, we overcorrect, overthink, and exhaust ourselves. But when we lift our gaze and look ahead, we find a steadier rhythm. We still adjust—but with a lot more ease and a lot less panic.Turns out, balance isn’t about reacting to everything right in front of you.
It’s about keeping your eyes on where you’re going.

Happy trails, 
Coach Minda

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E-bikes and mountain bike trips: A special shout-out to Bernardo at Up Down Trails 








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